📍 For women going through the menopause in Haarlem, Heemstede, Bloemendaal & surroundings

Personal Trainer for the menopause, Haarlem & surroundings

Strength training, nutrition and coaching matched to perimenopause, menopause and postmenopause. For women over 40 who notice the old recipe has stopped working and want their body on their side again. Coaching in English or Dutch.

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In short

  • The menopause transition can begin between 40 and 60 and lasts several years on average. In that period the loss of muscle mass and bone density speeds up.
  • Strength training is one of the few things that demonstrably counters that, as long as the load moves with the phase you are in.
  • A healthy lifestyle does not remove hot flushes, but it does make them easier to live with and keeps your energy steadier.
  • The nutrition plan shifts along with it: more attention for protein, less aggressive calorie restriction.

Why your old routine has stopped working

What used to be "move enough and watch what you eat" no longer works. Not because you are doing something wrong, but because something is shifting hormonally.

Oestrogen falls

Fat storage shifts towards the middle. Muscle mass drops without you changing anything. Bone density starts declining, years before a scan would show it.

Cortisol rises

Sleep becomes broken, recovery takes longer. The cardio that used to make you fit now feels draining. Stress settles in the body faster.

Metabolism changes

The same food, a different result. Crash diets cost you muscle and lower your resting metabolism further. What once worked now works against you.

This is not "you have to work harder". This is a phase where the rules change. Women who understand the new rules and train accordingly come out of the menopause stronger and steadier than they went in. Women who keep following the old rules, more cardio, less food, the same group classes, get more stuck.

The four phases, and what training does in each

Not every woman is at the same point. The approach shifts with you.

Perimenopause · around 40-45

What you notice: your cycle becomes irregular, your sleep is broken, your weight sits differently while you eat the same, and your fuse is shorter.

What we focus on: protecting muscle mass before it gets genuinely harder. Strength training two or three times a week, protein first, and sleep treated as part of the training. This is the phase where every hour you invest pays back the most.

Menopause · around 45-55

What you notice: hot flushes, night sweats, energy that swings, focus that drops away at times, and a clear change in where weight sits.

What we focus on: recovery-led training. No overtraining, no hours of cardio. Strength training stays the base, but we watch sleep and stress more closely. Nutrition matters even more: enough protein, fewer large sugar spikes, no extreme calorie deficits.

Postmenopause · around 55+

What you notice: menopause symptoms ease off, but bone density and muscle mass are now the point of attention. The risk of falls, fractures and sarcopenia rises without deliberate work.

What we focus on: loading the bones through progressive strength training (squats and deadlifts in a safe variation), balance, and functional strength for daily life. Women who take this seriously are often physically fitter at 65 than they were at 50.

Late postmenopause · 65+

What is at play: every kilo of muscle you lose is harder to win back. Maintaining strength and mobility is no longer a luxury but an insurance policy for staying independent.

What we focus on: training consistently at a level that is safe and repeatable. Not on delivering a peak performance, but on keeping a strong body. Many clients in this phase stay active for years on a maintenance programme.

Who is this programme for (and who is it not for)?

Personal training through the menopause is not a replacement for a gym and not an alternative to medical care. It stands on its own.

This is for you if…

  • You notice your old routine no longer delivers what it used to
  • You want one-to-one coaching, not a women's group class
  • You are willing to commit four months to a different rhythm
  • You see the value of training, nutrition and coaching joined up rather than separate
  • You live in Haarlem, Heemstede, Bloemendaal or the surrounding area

This is not for you if…

  • You want a quick fix without changing anything about your nutrition
  • You have medical symptoms that need a diagnosis first, in which case start with your GP
  • You would rather train in a group than one to one
  • You are looking for hormone therapy, which is work for your doctor, not for me
  • You are not ready to commit to four months

Meet your coach

Remko Opdam, Personal Trainer at Infinite Health Haarlem

About Remko

Many of the women who come to me during the menopause share one experience: years of moving faithfully, watching what they ate, and then suddenly nothing works the way it did.

The frustration is double: the body does something unexpected, and the solutions everyone recommends ("eat less, move more") sometimes make it worse.

My job is to give you a different game plan.

Strength training built up the right way. Nutrition that accounts for what is changing hormonally. Recovery as part of the training, not as a luxury. And coaching that helps you keep going in a phase where your body sometimes works against you.

For medical questions I always refer you back to your GP or a menopause clinic. I am a trainer, not a doctor. My role covers everything where training, nutrition and coaching are proven to make the difference.

Sessions take place at SportCity Haarlem Raaks (postcode 2011), with clients from Haarlem, Heemstede, Bloemendaal, Aerdenhout and Overveen.

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Programmes & investment

Four options, for women just starting out and for women who want to go all in. Minimum starting period of 4 months, monthly cancellation after that.

Foundation programme

1× per week
€399 per 4 weeks
For anyone who wants to ease in
  • Personal intake conversation
  • Body composition analysis
  • A nutrition plan built for you
  • Regular progress measurements
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Intensive programme

3× per week
€1,249 per 4 weeks
Maximum transformation
  • Everything in Transformation
  • 100% results guarantee
  • 2 years of monthly check-ins after the programme
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See all programme details + Introduction package €499 →

Frequently asked questions, perimenopause & menopause

Which type of exercise is best during the menopause?
Recent research consistently points to strength training as one of the most effective things you can do during the menopause. Not because it burns kilos, but because it addresses the two things that decline hormonally: muscle mass and bone density. Cardio helps your endurance and your heart, but be careful with hours of it in a phase where cortisol is already raised. Overtraining slows your recovery and can make symptoms worse. For most women over 40 the best combination is strength training two or three times a week, plus walking or cycling in between. The load has to build gradually: starting too heavy raises the injury risk, while staying too careful gives your muscles and bones too little stimulus. At Infinite Health we set this per person. One woman can start at three sessions a week, another with more symptoms does better with a calmer build-up towards the same level. We decide that together during the intake.
Source: systematic review on strength training & bone density (PMC) →
Can you lose weight during the menopause?
Yes, but the strategy is different from your thirties. As oestrogen falls, fat storage shifts towards the middle and your resting metabolism drops. Crash diets no longer work: they cost you muscle mass and lower your metabolism further. What does work is enough protein (1.6-2.0 g per kg of body weight), strength training to build muscle, enough sleep and handling stress. In our programme we do not chase the fastest drop on the scales, we chase a change in your body composition: less fat, more muscle, a better rhythm. That sometimes means the scales barely move for a while even though your body is visibly changing, and that is exactly the moment not to panic back into a strict diet. Eating less and doing more cardio is the reaction that still worked at 30, but here it often backfires: it speeds up muscle loss rather than fat loss.
Source: protein needs in female athletes (MDPI, narrative review) →
How often should I train during the menopause?
Strength training two or three times a week is ideal for most women. Too little, once a week, does not give your muscles and bones a repeated stimulus. Too much, five or more heavy sessions a week, can worsen recovery and hormonal stress in this phase. Add 7,000 to 10,000 steps a day and one or two light cardio sessions, not marathon training. The Transformation programme (twice a week) and the Intensive programme (three times a week) are built around exactly this. For most women in this phase twice a week is more than enough to get the hormonal and physical benefits without recovery falling behind. Training more often than you need, without recovery and nutrition growing with it, tends to work against you here, which is less of a problem in younger bodies. Training less but with more focus often delivers more than clinging to a schedule that used to work.
What helps against belly fat during the menopause?
The combination that works: strength training, which raises your resting metabolism, enough protein, sleep as a priority, less stress and a small calorie deficit. What does not work: sit-ups on their own, hours of cardio, or strict diets without strength training. Belly fat around the menopause has a hormonal cause, since falling oestrogen shifts where fat is stored, so it cannot be trained away with targeted abdominal work alone. What does work is making your whole body fitter, stronger and better rested. The belly fat then comes down on its own. Patience matters as much as the method: hormonal fat distribution does not change in a few weeks, but it does change noticeably within a 17-week programme. Anyone who gives up halfway because the scales move slowly usually stops right before body composition genuinely starts to shift. That is why we measure more than weight alone.
When exactly does perimenopause start?
Perimenopause can start from around the age of 40, sometimes earlier, and lasts four to ten years on average. The first signals are often subtle: a cycle that becomes irregular, broken sleep, a shorter fuse, and weight distributing differently while you eat the same. Many women do not yet register this as "the menopause", but as "something is off". This is exactly the phase where training to a different protocol has the largest impact, because you can make the whole transition far smoother. Waiting until symptoms are unmistakable usually means you have already lost some muscle mass and bone density before you start adjusting. Women who do targeted strength training in this early phase often find the rest of the transition runs more easily than for peers who start later. Your GP, the Dutch family doctor, can help you place the phase you are in, although hormone levels vary so much here that a single blood test rarely settles it.
Source: Thuisarts.nl on the menopause (in Dutch) →
Strength training or cardio: which comes first in the menopause?
Strength training first, always. For what shifts hormonally, muscle mass and bone density declining and fat distribution changing, strength training is the direct intervention. Cardio is a good addition, whether that is walking, cycling or swimming, but it is not a substitute. Short on time and forced to choose? In this phase, two or three strength sessions a week will do far more for you than four or five cardio sessions.
Do you give medical advice, or work together with doctors?
I am a personal trainer, not a doctor or a menopause consultant. My work is training, nutrition, movement and coaching, not hormone therapy or medication. I do regularly work with clients who are being treated in parallel by their GP, a menopause consultant, or the menopause clinic at Spaarne Gasthuis, the regional hospital here. If there is any doubt, or if symptoms are medical, I always refer you back to your treating doctor. My role is complementary: I make sure training and nutrition line up with what is happening medically instead of sitting apart from it. If you use hormone therapy, for example, I take that into account in the training and nutrition plan without making any claims about it myself. What your doctor advises leads, and my job is to make training and nutrition strengthen that rather than run alongside it.
Do you also work with a dietitian or menopause consultant?
Not as a rule, but when a client is already being supported by a dietitian or a menopause consultant I am happy to coordinate with them. My nutrition guidance always stays at the level of supporting your training: protein, timing, structure. For clinical nutrition diagnoses or hormone care you are better off with the right professionals, and my work can run alongside theirs.

Would you rather train one to one at a specific location? Have a look at the page on training at SportCity Haarlem Raaks. Or see the broader page for women over 40 in Haarlem.

By Remko Opdam, T.O.P. Trainer A (Overload Worldwide) and certified in Mylogenics Activation, Release & Rehab. Last updated: 1 July 2026.

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How the programme works

From first conversation to measurable result, in fixed steps.

  1. Free intake. We talk through your goal or complaint, the rhythm of your week and what did and did not work before. You get a reply within one working day.
  2. Testing and baseline measurement. The Activation tests show which muscle groups are doing their share and which are lagging behind, and we record your starting point: strength, body composition and how you feel.
  3. A programme built for you. Your training and nutrition are built around your starting point and your diary, not around a standard template.
  4. Train and adjust. Every session is one to one. Where tension or restricted movement shows up, we use Release techniques and then carry on with the training.
  5. Measure and extend. Along the way we measure again. After 17 weeks the programme continues in 4-week blocks, or you scale back to maintenance.
The minimum starting period is 4 months, after which you can cancel monthly. The results guarantee applies if you attend at least 80% of your sessions and follow the nutrition plan.
ProgrammeFrequencyPriceResults guarantee
Introduction6 sessions in 6 weeks€499 one-offNo
Foundation1× per week€399 per 4 weeksNo
Transformation2× per week€699 per 4 weeksYes
Intensive3× per week€1,249 per 4 weeksYes

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